On Resurrecting Your Father
It is during one’s twenties (or perhaps as early as the late teens) when the veil of parental omnipotence begins to fray. The timing is no surprise of course, given that the dawn of adulthood brings with it a great deal of energy, independence and a firm resolve to prove oneself. Young people in this phase of life step out into the world for the first time, armed with an arsenal of lofty ideals some of which are gleaned from the pages of books, some captured from conversations with peers, some remembered from the words of experts or other wise people, and a few from one’s own experiences. The inaugural steps into independence invariably beckon a retrospective gaze upon the decisions of one's parents, particularly one's father. Encased in the fragile armour of newfound autonomy, one finds oneself emboldened to cast a critical eye upon the choices made by them. A sense of self-assuredness, however fleeting, permeates the soul, strengthening the belief in one's own capacity t...